The Dragonfly Story

Boy with dragonfly


I had an impulse to share this story today and, as I’m working on following my intuition, here it is. I know there is someone out there who is needing it today…


Down below the surface of a quiet pond lived a little colony of water bugs. They were a happy colony, living far away from the sun.

For many months they were very busy, scurrying over the soft mud on the bottom of the pond. They noticed that every once in a while one of their colony seemed to lose interest in going about its business with its friends. Clinging to the stem of a pond lily, it gradually climbed out of sight and was never seen again.

“Look!” said one of the water bugs to another. “One of our colony is climbing up the lily stalk. Where do you suppose she is going?” Up, up, up it went slowly. Even as they watched, the water bug disappeared from sight. Its friends waited and waited but it didn’t return. “That’s funny!” said one water bug to another. “Wasn’t she happy here?” asked a second water bug. “Where do you suppose she went?” wondered a third. No one had an answer. They were greatly puzzled.

Finally one of the water bugs, a leader in the colony, gathered them all together. “I have an idea”, he said. “The next one of us who climbs up the lily stalk must promise to come back and tell us where he or she went and why.” “We promise,” they said solemnly.

One spring day, not long after, the very water bug who had suggested the plan found himself climbing up the lily stalk. Up, up, up he went. Before he knew what was happening, he had broken through the surface of the water, and fallen onto the broad, green lily pad above.

He was so tired, and the sun felt so warm, that he decided to take a nap. As he slept, his body changed and when he awoke, he had turned into a beautiful blue-tailed dragonfly with broad wings and a slender body designed for flying.

He couldn’t believe the startling change he saw in his body. His movement revealed four silver wings and a long tail. Even as he struggled, he felt an impulse to move his wings. The warmth of the sun soon dried the moisture from the new body. He moved his wings again and suddenly found himself up above the water. He had become a dragonfly.

Swooping and dipping in great curves, he flew through the air. He felt exhilarated in his new environment. By and by, the new dragonfly lighted happily on a lily pad to rest. Then it was that he chanced to look below to the bottom of the pond. Why, he was right above his old friends, the water bugs! There they were, scurrying about, just as he had been doing some time before. Then the dragonfly remembered the promise: “The next one of us who climbs up the lily stalk will come back and tell where he or she went and why.”

Without thinking, the dragonfly darted down. Suddenly he hit the surface of the water and bounced away. Now that he was a dragonfly, he could no longer go into the water. “I can’t return!” he said in dismay. “At least I tried, but I can’t keep my promise. Even if I could go back, not one of the water bugs would know me in my new body. I guess I’ll just have to wait until they become dragonflies too. Then they’ll understand what happened to me, where I went, and this wonderful new life I’ve been given.” And the dragonfly winged off happily into its wonderful new world of sun and air.

Blessings and magic,



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7 Responses

  1. It was me. I am certainly one who needed to know that story. In February of 2016 my beautiful, smart, funny step-daughter died of a drug overdose. She was 22. On her birthday, as I sat in a grey city environment, waiting for a bus and trying not to sob, a blue, iridescent, dragonfly came out of nowhere and lighted on my shoulder. All through this past year at the times I have been particularly sad I have found dragonflies…pictures, jewelry…
    Her birthday rolled around again this year on August 26. All month I’ve been wondering, is she Okay? Is she in a happy place? Is she safe?
    Reading your story gave me some hope that even though I can’t scoop her up in my arms I know that she is in a better place. I may not understand it but she is free now and I can begin to let her go.

    Thank you for trusting your instinct and sharing your story. I know it’s just a story but I’m sobbing as I read it at my desk this morning. But, I feel lighter and a little better about letting sweet Ashley go where she is supposed to be.

    1. I’m sobbing too… that I could give you some solace in your pain is such a gift to me. I have been contemplating giving this space up but know now that my sharing that story was a cry for your help. Thank you for giving me clarity.
      Wow… this has been such a meaningful experience. Thanks you!

  2. Thank you so much Donni for your dragonfly story. You have no idea how much it has helped me. Your statement of somebody out there needing it was so true. I put out a prayer and you answered! Thank you. I am more enlightened now.?

    1. Hi Julie,
      I’m honored to have been able to help you a little. It is such a lovely way to look at something so painful… leaves one with hope. I’m sorry for your loss.
      Blessings and magic to you,

  3. Donni,

    Have you thought about publishing this story? I think it is wonderful and it should be in print so it can be read by more people. Love your blog and ideas.


  4. Oh what a wonderfully inspiring story. So glad I found your site. Must have needed to read this today as I ventured here through another’s blog.

    Peabea@Peabea Scribbles

    1. So glad you found this story inspiring. It has helped my children (and me) see grief in a different light.
      <3 Donni

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